Ryan has appeared in Nordstrom's ads and others, and like Rick, I am pleased to see Ryan's face alongside kids without Down syndrome instead of sequestered into an ad of just kids with special needs, as is often the case. Target included Ryan, but they didn't make a big deal out of it. Their lack of words said more than anything else could have, including that kids with Down syndrome are kids first and that inclusion isn't a big deal but that exclusion would be.
To put it into roughly sketched pictures, Target said we're not going to work with these buckets
because kids with special needs are kids too. In fact, they're kids first, with disability as just one characteristic, like hair color or slinky preference. Separating their ads into the two categories above would make as much sense as doing using the ones below.
Instead, Target just advertises clothing to kids, in all their diversity.
Now how about us? Consider the areas of your church that display what you care about. Does the bulletin board with children's ministry pictures or the section of your website devoted to family ministry include the faces of those with special needs? Or do you just include those pictures in areas that are specific to special needs?
Of course, that's not the only sign of how you view people, just like this past Sunday's Target ad isn't the only sign of that company's inclusion of kids with special needs. It is a good indicator though, isn't it?
Is this your church, in which people can only fit in one bucket?
Or do you acknowledge that we are all the church, made richer because of - and not in spite of - our God-given diversity?
P.S. Sketching might not be my strong suit, but my four-year-old daughter recognized that the pictures above were buckets, and that's good enough for me.

An excellent lesson for us all. Thanks, Shannon.
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ReplyDeleteThis is an excellent illustrations! This is coming from someone with multiple illness and who is a youth pastor's wife!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Jeff and Steve and Jamee! I'm glad this was helpful. I plan to use this illustration more and more, because I think it does a good job of capturing how the church should and shouldn't approach disability ministry.
ReplyDeleteThank you! You've illustrated a issue we've let become too complex. We are ONE CHURCH, ONE BODY... Glory be to God!
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